Reaching Out
I received an email a few days ago from a man who wondered if I would be willing to chat with him. In his message, he told me that he had been treated for lymphoma a few years ago but that there is evidence that it is returning. He also told me that he was trying to adjust to the idea that it has come back, and he wondered if I would be willing to chat with him. Of course, I said, and so we talked by phone.
As it turns out, the man told me he had found me over a year ago and had put my email address on a sticky note that had been attached to his computer all that time. During that time, he didn't want to "bother" me or worry his family...and so he stoically kept his fears to himself. As his fears grew, he finally decided to reach out. We talked for over an hour and when he realized that his fears were normal when faced with cancer, they seemed less threatening. He repeatedly told me how good it felt to talk to someone who truly understands.
I know that every one of us handles our emotions differently and we reach out to others when we're ready. But this particular call made me wonder if any of you are holding back. If so, let me assure you that Mort and I are here to help you in any way we can. While we can't give you medical advice, we offer our hands to walk with you through this journey.
So please know that you are not alone and ask us whatever questions you wish. We are here for you.
Betsy